Went running tonight, it’s good to be back in my groove again. The sky was so clear I could see the Milky Way! This is my favorite running song, it’s amazing and makes me want to run really fast.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTbKorqc56o&
I read this blog post last week, and I think it’s a fun new sex move to try if you’re interested. We tried it with clothes on first just to figure it out. (We would have never done something like that just a year ago, my how times have changed 
Position of The Week X’s and O’s (Monogabliss)
This is also something I’ve discovered lately that’s been really fun.
Female Ejaculation (Danny From 504)
And I’ve convinced myself that BDSM isn’t no-ot a Christian thing to try…..as long as they’re just pretending…..and doesn’t involve real humiliation or unwanted pain and the husband still is loving his wife and she is respecting him. So here is an exciting role play idea to throw at your husband some night this week when he gets home from work.
Domination Play (Christian Nymphos)
I wanted to especially highlight a comment from Ing that was on the blog above.
To all your newly-weds or DINKS (double income, no kids )Something I did before we had kids, was to start preparing dinner early, so that when he came home, it was almost ready. Then, just before he gets home, I would undress and put on ONLY an apron. When he walked into the kitchen, I would be standing in front of the stove with my revealing back-side to him and the front all covered up. You can guess what he had in mind, but I told him NO – wait until supper is finished… then I would pass him a nice cold glass of wine and finish up… light the candles and have a romantic candle-lit dinner in ONLY my apron…. then I would “dominate” the rest of the evening. The biggest challenge was to make him wait… and then tell him what kind of dessert he will be getting… with ALL the details… we have fond memories of those child-less years…
May you all see stars this week and God bless!
Tagged: BDSM, Christian Marriage, Pleasing Your Husband, Relationships, role playing, Sexual intercourse, Sexy, Sizzler, song of the week
OK, I looked at the photo of the little wooden dolls doing the described position, and I’m still wondering how the husband can move very well sitting on his rear end with his legs stretched out in front of him. Since you tried a clothed mock up, can I ask…was he able to move enough? My husband is out of town, so I’m just trying to imagine this and can’t try it out at the moment, LOL!
On second thought, maybe you should just skip this one. I ended up getting my wrist jammed from his knee. We just put our hands behind us on the bed to move, it was interesting, but I ended up on top to finish it, so I don’t know if it really counts since we changed things.
I was wondering if the phrase “kick-ass” is commonly used in your christian culture?
No, it’s probably not. I’m exploring my freedoms as a Christian and working on my uptightness. God Bless!
What do you consider “freedoms”?
“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” Galations 5:1
Freedom from constantly trying to be good enough. Freedom to love and enjoy God fully and to pour His love onto others, freedom to say cuss words. (That law isn’t even mentioned in the bible, I believe it’s one we made up)
I realize that Eph. 4:29 is not a part of the Torah, but do you think it might apply? It is really interesting to see what people feal freed from or to.
**big smile** You win! That is a worthy defense, cuss word withdrawn.
I find that true freedom is when God’s Spirit walks with me and convicts me Himself, rather than others trying to harness me into their style, brand or look of religion.
I agree. (And I also feel that it is our job as fellow believers to “spur one another on to righteousness.) In responding to this post, I was really more interested in the thought process (both personnally and as a culture)of the origional person making the statement. As in “are you bucking your personal culture with a statement like that”? Know what I mean?
“I was really more interested in the …. origional person making the statement.”
No problem Jim, I’m happy to comply!
I did not mean to imply that I was not interested in your comments on the idea. What I was wondering was does an “off-color” statement that would never be said in some Christian circles become OK in others? Is it the location, the medium or whatever that changes the appropriateness of it? Robyn, what is your immediate culture like?
oh that’s ok Jim, no problem
What I like is that Jim used the word “kick-ass” in the comments so that even after sis removed it from the original post, it is still there and I can read it. Thanks Jim.